The shamans, healers, sages, and wisdom keepers of all times, all continents, and all peoples, in their ageless wisdom, say that the three facets of human spirituality are:
1. Relationships
Relationships are at the core of human spirituality, encompassing our inner and outer connections. Understanding and nurturing these two aspects of relationships is essential for overall spiritual well-being.
Internal Relationships (Domestic Policy)
Self-Reflection and Awareness
This involves taking time to understand your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Journaling, meditation, or quiet contemplation can help recognize your needs and areas for personal growth.
Self-Care and Compassion
How you treat yourself sets the tone for all other relationships. Practices like setting boundaries, prioritizing mental health, and engaging in activities that bring joy and relaxation can strengthen your internal relationship.
Connecting with Your Higher Self
This aspect focuses on aligning with your deeper purpose, values, and spiritual beliefs. It can include spiritual practices, like prayer, meditation, or other spiritual rituals that help you stay connected to your core.
External Relationships (Foreign Policy)
Connection with Others
Your relationships with family, friends, colleagues, and your community reflect your external spiritual connections. Evaluating these relationships can involve considering how supportive, genuine, and reciprocal they are.
Support and Interaction
It is crucial to actively engage in positive interactions, be a source of support, and show empathy toward others. Acts of kindness and service can significantly enhance one’s sense of spiritual connection.
Relationship with the Environment
This extends beyond human beings to all living entities, including animals and nature. Cultivating a respectful and mindful approach to the environment, such as through sustainable practices or time in nature, enriches your external relationships.
How would you evaluate your internal relationship, and what steps could you take to cultivate it?
Moving from domestic policy to foreign policy, how would you evaluate your personal relationship to your external relationships?
2. Values
Values serve as the compass that guides your decisions and actions, reflecting what is most important to you. They form your life’s ethical and spiritual practice and moral foundation, influencing how you relate to yourself and others.
Identifying Core Values
Self-Assessment
Take time to reflect on what truly matters to you. This might include qualities like honesty, integrity, kindness, or resilience. Understanding your core values helps you make choices that align with your authentic self.
Values in Action
Values aren’t just ideals; they are lived through actions. Consistently aligning your behavior with your own values and life purpose can bring a sense of fulfillment and purpose.
Navigating Conflicts
Sometimes, life presents situations where values may clash. Learning to navigate these conflicts by prioritizing and staying true to your most essential values is critical to maintaining spiritual balance.
Living by Your Values
Setting Intentions
Being intentional about your values means setting clear goals that reflect what you stand for. This can guide your daily actions and long-term aspirations.
Impact on Relationships and Life Choices
Values influence who you associate with, your chosen career, and how you spend your time. Being clear about your values helps create a life that feels true to you.
3. Life Purpose
Life purpose is finding and pursuing what gives your life meaning and direction. It is the driving force that inspires you to live authentically and contribute to the world around you.
Discovering Your Purpose
Exploration and Curiosity
Finding your purpose often involves exploring different interests and passions. Being curious and open to new experiences can help uncover what excites and motivates you.
Reflection and Clarity
Purpose can be found through introspection and reflection on past experiences, personal strengths, and the impact you want on the world. Asking yourself what legacy you wish to leave behind can provide clarity.
Alignment with Values
Your life purpose is most fulfilling when it aligns with your core values. This creates a sense of coherence and integrity in all three aspects of your life.
Living with Purpose
Goal Setting and Action
Once you identify your purpose, setting achievable goals and taking actionable steps is crucial. These might involve career choices, volunteering, or other forms of contribution that resonate with your purpose.
Adapting and Evolving
Life’s purpose is not static; it can evolve. Flexibility and allowing your purpose to grow with you ensures that it remains relevant and fulfilling throughout life.
Overcoming Obstacles
Pursuing your purpose can be challenging. Resilience, persistence, and staying connected to your why can help you overcome obstacles and stay on course.
These three components are so tightly integrated that it may be hard to separate them. But if this were possible, take a moment to reflect on each aspect of human spirituality to determine the status of your spiritual well-being.
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Paul Aguirre, CD Counselor
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